Your right th, my h ow honestly believed my kids would love her, and want her over me She did tell him she loved him, but assures me that as soon as she said it, she regretted it Those messages, emails even the most innocuous are devastating. What makes me sick is what my H gossiped to her about me. WTF why couldn’t he leave me out of it? What kind of man gossips about someone who takes care of him?